liot\/114657683092796835<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n\u00c7a m’a fait penser (alors que j’attendais mon tour \u00e0 la caisse du supermarch\u00e9) \u00e0 quel point ma vie aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 enti\u00e8rement diff\u00e9rente si j’avais eu des gosses. Comme je viens du prol\u00e9tariat (et que j’ai v\u00e9cu une bonne partie de ma vie dans la pr\u00e9carit\u00e9 – c’est toujours le cas aujourd’hui), je n’aurais pas eu d’autre choix que de travailler – beaucoup plus en tous cas que je ne l’ai fait. Aurais-je pu mener mes \u00e9tudes l\u00e0 o\u00f9 je les ai men\u00e9es ? Certainement pas avec un gosse. Il aurait fallu aller au turbin, pendant quelques d\u00e9cennies.<\/p>\n
Autrement dit, avec des gosses, j’aurais d\u00fb m’aligner sur le r\u00e9gime du travail salari\u00e9 (n’ayant certainement pas les moyens de monter un business, du moins pas un business l\u00e9gal \ud83d\ude05 ).<\/p>\n
C’est l\u00e0 un des endroits o\u00f9 l’\u00e9thique du travail s’articule avec l’\u00e9thique de la famille. Un double alignement pour ainsi dire (mais au fond, le m\u00eame alignement).<\/p>\n
Ma biographie professionnelle est ce qu’elle est, une litanie de d\u00e9missions et de licenciements, parce que je n’ai pas eu d’enfants. Ce qui m’apparaissait comme intol\u00e9rable dans le monde du travail, et la possibilit\u00e9 de manifester mon refus de cet intol\u00e9rable, est secr\u00e8tement li\u00e9 \u00e0 l’absence de \u00ab\u00a0bouche \u00e0 nourrir\u00a0\u00bb autre que la mienne. Combien de fois ai-je entendu : \u00ab\u00a0mais tu ne peux pas faire\/dire \u00e7a !\u00a0\u00bb quand j’incendiais un patron ou l’institution qui m’employait (sachant tr\u00e8s bien ce qui allait suivre : le licenciement ou la d\u00e9mission) ?<\/p>\n
Mes errances \u00ab\u00a0bio-g\u00e9ographiques\u00a0\u00bb, mes perditions, ces exp\u00e9riences dangereuses et non-align\u00e9es que je menais consciencieusement dans l’id\u00e9e d’en faire un jour la mati\u00e8re de livres futurs, ne concernaient en d\u00e9finitive que mon propre corps, mon propre esprit. Si j’avais eu des bouches \u00e0 nourrir autre que la mienne, j’aurais sans doute fini par plier, m’aligner \u00e0 l’\u00e9thique de la famille et l’\u00e9thique du travail – parce que, et c’est une diff\u00e9rence cruciale, je ne disposais pas du capital \u00e9conomique (et social, relationnel) qui m’aurait permis de faire autrement. Je n’aurais pas eu le temps non plus de lire tous ces livres et d’en \u00e9crire.<\/p>\n
\u00c7a se paye aussi \u00e9videmment. D’une pr\u00e9carit\u00e9 persistante \u00e0 l’\u00e2ge o\u00f9 nombre de mes amis d’hier vivent \u00e0 leur aise sans se soucier du lendemain.<\/p>\n
Mais, \u00e0 bien y penser, ai-je vraiment eu le choix ? Ce qu’une agente de l’ANPE avait qualit\u00e9 nagu\u00e8re de \u00ab\u00a0dilettantisme\u00a0\u00bb et un autre d’ \u00ab\u00a0instabilit\u00e9\u00a0\u00bb, n’est en r\u00e9alit\u00e9 que la cons\u00e9quence de mes refus. Or, ces refus, bien qu’ils m’aient conduit parfois \u00e0 vivre des cons\u00e9quences dramatiques – qu’une bonne \u00e9toile ou l’instinct de survie, ou encore quelques rencontres miraculeuses, ont permis d’\u00e9viter de s’achever en trag\u00e9die (jusqu’\u00e0 pr\u00e9sent) -, n’ont pas grand chose \u00e0 voir avec des choix libres et \u00e9clair\u00e9s – je n’\u00e9tais pas aussi politis\u00e9 nagu\u00e8re que je le suis aujourd’hui : je politise a posteriori des choix qui n’en \u00e9taient pas vraiment. Se plier m’aurait conduit \u00e0 la folie, \u00e0 l’internement, ou pire. Tout le monde n’est pas capable psychiquement de supporter de suivre les chemins align\u00e9s, de tol\u00e9rer les ali\u00e9nations du travail, la violence des rapports sociaux.<\/p>\n
Pour nombre de prol\u00e9taires et de pr\u00e9caires, il s’agit de baisser la t\u00eate et ob\u00e9ir tout en se fabriquant un r\u00e9cit des \u00ab\u00a0origines\u00a0\u00bb comme le dit Lisa Rofel dans un article recueilli dans le volume Ghost Protocol, sur les travailleurs migrants de l’int\u00e9rieur en Chine. Un r\u00e9cit qui vous assigne \u00e0 accepter des boulots mal pay\u00e9s et humiliants parce que vous \u00eates issus des classes les plus d\u00e9favoris\u00e9es. Doubl\u00e9 d’un r\u00e9cit concernant le futur : \u00e0 force de plier, \u00e0 force d’ob\u00e9ir, un jour viendra o\u00f9 vous pourrez \u00e0 votre tour devenir \u00ab\u00a0entrepreneur\u00a0\u00bb, rejoindre le paradis des gens ais\u00e9s, qui ne craignent pas le lendemain (mais en attendant il faut nourrir ses gosses, a minima).<\/p>\n
Ce que Lauren Berlant appelait \u00ab\u00a0the cruel optimism\u00a0\u00bb – par quoi cet espoir d’un futur meilleur (\u00ab\u00a0les jours heureux\u00a0\u00bb comme dit l’autre connard de Roussel) conduit des g\u00e9n\u00e9rations et des g\u00e9n\u00e9rations \u00e0 se plier, \u00e0 tol\u00e9rer l’intol\u00e9rable, alors m\u00eame que la plupart de sortiront jamais de cette vie pr\u00e9caire, et ne laisseront rien d’autre \u00e0 leurs rejetons que la pr\u00e9carit\u00e9, et ainsi de suite (et c’est ainsi que le capitalisme prosp\u00e8re, et tient en respect les r\u00e9volutions de masse).<\/p>\n
Bref. Qu’on ne s’y trompe pas. Dans mon cas, il ne s’agit pas de position politique (elle est politis\u00e9e apr\u00e8s coup, et sans doute l’assum\u00e9-je aujourd’hui avec plus de d\u00e9termination qu’hier, bien que je n’ai pas vraiment plus de choix qu’hier)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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